Q: This may be too personal a question, can you offer any advice on how to handle celebrations of Mass that in small or large ways do not follow rubrics, or wording, or add all sorts of things?
No doubt I bother some people when I am the priest at Mass. But I make a point of paying attention to what the book says, and I take seriously what I was taught.
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A: Just pray as best you can. If something seems seriously out of line, report it to the bishop or vicar for clergy in the diocese.